Before you hit send, run through this quick checklist. Check anything that applies and get an instant, playful verdict.
Nothing here is saved, sent, or seen by anyone.
No warning signs checked yet. Looking good.
Check any statement that's currently true, and watch the verdict update live. Your actual message is never read by this tool — you're only describing your situation, and nothing is saved or sent anywhere.
Be honest about the time, your mood, and how many times you've reread it.
The verdict and score update instantly as you check and uncheck boxes.
Select "Clear all" to reset before checking a different message.
Each checked item adds one point to your total. A low score suggests things are probably fine; a higher score suggests waiting, drafting instead of sending, or simply putting the phone down until morning. It's a playful nudge, not a rule.
Few or no warning signs checked usually means it's safe to send.
A handful of warning signs is a good moment to pause and reread with fresh eyes.
Several warning signs at once is the classic setup for a text you'll wish you could unsend.
Treat it as a lighthearted second opinion, not professional advice — but the 2am-paragraph energy is real.
No. This tool never sees your actual message. You only check boxes describing your situation, and nothing is saved or sent anywhere.
Each checked warning sign adds a point. Your total is compared against a few thresholds to produce a playful verdict.
Then you're probably in the clear — the tool will tell you to go ahead and send it.